Sunday, January 5, 2025

NYC, the end

 

A happy bit of blue sky to close out our trip. 


Because there was an impending storm in the midwest, we tied up our trip a bit early with brunch, and then walked to the ferry and drove him. 


We unpacked, packed, and drove the long journey home (hitting some snow at the beginning and then clear roads for the rest of the way). I got some late-night groceries. 

Today I'm stuck to the couch (after a morning mass where I could barely keep my eyes open). We wonder how much snow will fall--anywhere between 4 and 12 inches--the estimates keep changing. 


Above: A big pigeon sculpture?!

NYC, continued

 

Thursday was an amazing day: We started with coffee and an almond croissant at the fancy coffee place in our hotel. The croissant was filled with marzipan--sublime. 

Then a breakfast sandwich at a real NYC working people's cafe on the way to an exhibit on Imaginary Books at the Grolier. 

I've been there before--was it with you, Hopkins and Stearns, to see miniature books in 2007? Was that when we saw the Cocktail Party? 




The exhibit is hard to explain. I'll tell you a lot about it, which is totally self-indulgent, but what is a blog if not self-indulgent? 


So this one anonymous book collector made the physical item (not the words) or books that existed and were lost or books that never existed except in the mind of an author, in the words of another book, or something like that. 


The exhibit was charming and funny--the line between truth and falsehood shamelessly transgressed. It is the only exhibit I've been to where I and others snickered from time to time. 





Just great fun! I loved this P.G. Wodehouse (story, I think) below: 







There was tons of Dorothy Sayers stuff, above. Below--the funding information. 


Next, we walked to the Neue to see an exhibit on Egon Schiele's landscapes, which was great. And the Klimts are lovely, too.

But before the art, we waited in line for the cafe, where we had Viennese treats. 



A picture from the Neue, before I remembered that there are no pictures. 

We had a rest at home in the afternoon--and dinner from the Whole Foods buffet across the street--before our play. 



There wasn't much small theater going on due to the holiday, but at the last minute I found a very entertaining play about Hannah Arendt. I didn't know she was briefly imprisoned and talked her way out of it. This play tells (imagines?) that story. We loved it. It was a little bit didactic, bringing all of her oeuvre into that one event--all held in one room, tracing her conversation with the Nazi officer who arrested her (with a brief discussion with a lawyer who offered to defend her). Anyway, it was great. 

Before the play started, in the row in front of us, a grandmother told her college-age grandson a bit about Arendt. "She wrote her dissertation on St. Augustine!" the grandmother said. The grandson obviously hadn't heard of Augustine: "What is he the saint of?" A look of confusion flickered over the grandmother's face. And then she lit on it: "He loved animals and was kind to them!" Francisco and I exchanged glances--she had mistaken St. Francis for Augustine. The grandmother's confidence returned: "He lived outside of Assisi!" She continued, "St. Francis of Assisi!" And then her face fell again, "No, that isn't right."

Is this funny to you? For some reason, this was delightfully funny to me. It gave me the first belly laugh I've had in a while; don't worry, I was discrete. 

 

NYC

Francisco and I had the absolutely best Christmas present this year--two nights in NYC sans children thanks to Nana and Papa! 

I love Hopkins' use of the line, "Start as you mean to go on," and it resonated in my head as Francisco and I walked around NYC on January 1. I mean to spend the year walking around cities with him. (A bit of an aspirational thought if you know where we live.)


Gertrude Stein.


Picture of a gorilla for the boys. 

Below: The Empire State building from our hotel room. 


We took the ferry, as usual, into the city. I sent Francisco out for $1.50 pizza slices after we arrived. 



Then we headed to a piano bar for cocktails (mine came with smoke!). 

Francisco: "Do you think they just did violence to all these books?" Indeed. 

We went to a very nice, very small Italian restaurant for dinner. Francisco ordered better than I did (usually I'm a very good orderer)--he had veal and risotto. This implement (below) was for eating the bone marrow! Good thing he always shares. 

The wine at this restaurant was sky high, so Francisco and I split a glass of their cheapest: $19. I had pasta with duck ragu and parmesan and orange which was also very good. I still like soft risotto though I acknowledge it's not traditional.

It was a perfect restaurant and we loved it. 

After dinner: A walk. 



Overheard as we talked: "...and I said, 'so I'm just going to be stuck with a Christmas tree for 364 days?'" Write a short story that puts that line in context!

Previously, Blaze during mass when I tried to get him to smile at an adorable baby starting at him, "You know I'm not the biggest baby lover." That's the truth--Q loves babies like a descendent of mine should; Blaze is uninterested. 

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

Happy New Year!


 

Perfect NYE: Mass, shrimp with Nana and Papa, champagne, a great meringue (a gift from Nana's friend), and all asleep at the regular time. (Except Nana and Papa who were enjoying the Penn State game.)

Tuesday, December 31, 2024

Christmassing


Here are the pictures from yesterday's graveyard walk. 




The real treat, something I've never seen before: Gravestones made to look like lumber, a huge industry here in, Francisco tells me, the 1870s to 90s. 




The last name was even sometimes carved to look like a font made of branches (above and below). 







Did I mention it was raining? 


This morning my brother's family came down. They come with a full engines blaring. I suspect that was a mixed metaphor; I don't know quite how to capture it. But with five adults to 6 children we did okay for 2.5 hours; not sure how #1tomatolover does it the rest of the time. 

My nephews brought me pictures they colored! They enthusiastically cracked nuts and shared them with me. They played with Nana's sparkly brown slime creatively. They played with all of the toys--they were most excited when they found a bird's egg in a nest on the Christmas tree. They were convinced it was a dino egg and that if they tried hard enough, they could get it open (it is made of wood). They are incredible with visual-spacial abilities (because my father works in psychology, this is how we think about kids). Nana made them their favorite--waffles--and they breathed down a hundred. 


My nieces and nephews are the absolute best and I'm so lucky whenever I get to see them, and I may need to sleep for the rest of the day. 

Monday, December 30, 2024

Christmassing

 

Gray, foggy, warm days. 


Delightful grandparents, playing a thousand games with the grandkids. 


As everyone else notes, all the days running into each other. Today--I can't show you pictures till they are uploaded tomorrow--Francisco and I took a walk in an old cemetery. And my dad and I watched a basketball game together--my team playing, a special treat to get to watch with my dad. And Nana keeps the feasting going--you wouldn't believe the muddy buddies, caramel popcorn, famous cinnamon buns, chocolate mint dessert, etc. 


Q realized we'd never had a funeral for his grandfather, who died six months ago. He objected to this, so we made a program of readings and prayers and Q read out loud the beautiful obituary that Francisco wrote for father. What is life but trust in God's mercy?

Sunday, December 29, 2024

Christmassing

Nana and the boys made their own puzzles.


Nana and Blaze made their own slime. 



The boys had a lot of fun playing outside together all over the property--it was a mild day. 




I took a walk near dusk, which at times felt like it was in black and white. 





We listened to Lully Lullay. 



We took a family walk on the street totally decorated with Christmas lights.