Sunday, April 29, 2012

Northern Liberties

When in Northern Liberties for brunch (Honey's! Goodness--and, it turns out, I ate the same thing I did last time!), we wandered around the neighborhood for a while. I love all of the murals--people even paint their picket fences in Northern Liberties.





You can't quite tell, but the green lump is a turtle, presumably crossing a finish line. 


Here's Girard College, which is, counterintutively, a high school, an enlightenment high school at that. The building is very grand but I think it's lacking something, either some decoration on the pediment or some windows or something.


We ended up in Fairmount, where there happened to be a community street fair. This woman was working on pottery on the sidewalk. Another man was leading, on the banjo, a group of enthusiastically tambourining children and their parents (well, the parents were enthusiastic--the children were half-way into it). So many times Philadelphia feels like it's straight out of Portlandia.

This morning at brunch I also felt like I had slid into Portlandia when the waitress asked the young man in a bow tie at the next table if he wanted coffee and he replied in a calm voice that implied a slight disdain for someone who was so unhealthy as to drink something so harsh and almost violent, "Maybe I'll have some hot tea."

Friday, April 27, 2012

Rodin Museum


Unfortunately, the Rodin Museum is closed, and will be until after I leave Philly (so sad--I have really liked living here). But the garden of the museum is open. So I stopped by with Elizabeth Bennett, since she was in town and loves Rodin.


A couple of the sculptures are outside, including this amazing cast of The Gates of Hell, which is a depiction of Dante's Inferno (the Thinker is overlooking this scene and may or may not be supposed to represent Dante). 


The Gates of Hell are a response to Ghiberti's Gates of Paradise, the doors to the baptistry in Florence (which I love).

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Georgetown


Monday, April 23, 2012

Damsels in Distress

As almost always, there are spoilers here. 

I've been waiting for what seems like years for the new Whit Stillman (it's been 14 years since he's made one, which is to say, he hasn't made a new film since I started watching his old ones).

Damsels in Distress is set at a liberal arts college that is both pretentious and filled with stupid students (this part is a stretch--one boy doesn't know colors). It centers on a mean girls group who aren't mean, at least not intentionally--they're trying to help people, albeit condescendingly. 

I thought that the beginning of the film was slow--there's the characteristic droll, slightly ignorant and slightly insightful (mostly insightful in their ignorance) commentary of Stillman's characters (Roger Ebert calls this double-reverse wit and likens it to P.G. Wodehouse*; in danger of sounding repetitive, it reminds me of Oscar Wilde), but there wasn't much else. I got interested a ways into the film when we see Violet, the main character,'s childhood obsessive-compulsive behaviors. In an explanation of those behaviors, her current psychosis becomes clearer.

Violet's urge is to reform--she tries to help suicidal students, with a special emphasis on the healing power of scents, and particularly the scent of soap. Her urge is to clean and organize and uplift. This urge is rooted in her own continuing struggles with the death of her parents and with rejection from a boyfriend. The soap is key to this reform and so is dance. She believes that suicidal and depressed students can be helped through tap and other forms of dance. She attempts to create a new international dance craze, the Sambola, which is a mix of other dance styles. She emphasizes dress and perfume and manners as a way to counteract the onslaught of depression often encountered at college.

Thomas Hibbs writes about dancing in Stillman's films:

In a recent group interview, one of his regular actors, Chris Eigeman, addressed Stillman: “I do think that dancing for you is sort of perfect in a way, because on the one front, it’s this very codified way of genders intermixing. It’s both intimate but very, very public.” Eigeman then added, “The other thing is that you look incredibly silly when you do it.” That’s a pretty good guide to Stillman’s art: comedic silliness at once concealing and revealing truths about the human condition.

Violet's efforts at reform are connected to her own efforts to remake herself, and we see characters around her adjusting their identity for different circumstances. Violet remakes herself, which includes renaming herself from the picked-on name of Emily Tweeder. Her friend Rose goes to England for 6 weeks and returns with a British accent (who among us has not met such a character?). Charlie/Freddie, a romantic interest of several of the girls, hides the fact that he's an eighth year education student by wearing suits and telling women that he works in strategic development (again, who among us has not met such a character?--a man with such a vague title that you know it's a cover up for something else--whether it's Tony Soprano's work in "Waste Management" or the ubiquitous DC "consultant," which probably refers to some secret job).

Visually, it is interesting that Stillman repeatedly used overexposed bright light that backlit the characters to make them look like angels with halos, which is clearly at least how they thought of themselves (and corresponding to their flowery names--Violet Wister, Heather and Rose). The other noteworthy stylistic element is the intermittently included phrases used to introduce you to the next section of the film. They are reminiscent of a silent movie and include things like, "The Algebra of Love" or "The Decline of Decadence." These contribute to the academic aspect of the film, appropriate since it's set at a college--the film presents itself as something like an academic paper with section headings and footnotes.

Also: like Hong Kong Housewife, I always get super cold at the movies. Unlike Hong Kong, U.S. movies do not give you blankets, so I brought my own, shoved in an over-sized tote. This also served as a convenient spot to hide snacks and drinks.


* And, goodness gracious, Whit Stillman is too clever by half, or however that cliche goes: from the opening credits in which he lists separately, "Damsels" and "Their Distress," to the closing qualification that "dufi" is the non-standard but preferred plural of "doofus," he is hilarious, although in a wry and ironic way that makes you smile, but not laugh. Although perhaps it was the two annoying women who kept laughing far too loudly directly behind us who made me not want to laugh?

** I have one more thing to say, but it doesn't relate to anything in the post: I love April in Parks and Rec, but I think that she is one of the worst actresses in Damsels in Distress. I have a feeling that it's because Stillman gave her a role that required some emotion, and she does better in roles where she doesn't have to show any.

(I wrote about his other films a long time ago here and here.)

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Tie Clips.2


Tie clips make me drool at the moment. When I ran across a bunch of vintage tie clips for sale and started rooting through them, I realized that I didn't know the first thing about them, namely, how big should they be? Do they need to match the size of the tie, or can they be narrower than the tie? Where exactly do you wear them on the tie? 

A knit tie and a tie clip: be still my beating heart.

GQ gives some helpful tips, pointing out that the tie clip (which they rather pretentiously call a tie bar) should clip the tie to the shirt, not just clip the front of the tie to the back of the tie (Ha! I love that they have to explain that to their readers!). Evidently they're supposed to be worn between the third and fourth buttons. I think I like them down a little further. Little, half tie clips seem to be in at the moment, which I'm fine with. Fred Astaire purportedly wore his slanted! I'm about to go and get myself a tie just so I can wear it with a tie clip!



The man where I was buying tie clips very cutely expressed his own preferences in tie clips--he loved all novelty varieties, like the ones that appear to hide behind the tie, or the ones that are shaped like swords, or are, in any other way, ornate and fairly gaudy.

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Quote


"But it is recorded [in Tradition] that many of the first believers used to hold that the Law has both an apparent and an inner meaning, and that the inner meaning ought not to be learned by anyone who is not a man of learning in this field and who is incapable of understanding it."

--Averroes, "The Decisive Treatise, Determining What the Connection is Between Religion and Philosophy" (I approve of his including "decisive" in his title; this treatise is fascinating if you've read Strauss)

Friday, April 20, 2012

Pitbull and Poison Ivy



 Dear Advice Columnist, 

What are you supposed to do when you know you're right and somebody tells you that you are wrong like you're in second grade? Not that this happens often, but it happened once and I got angry. Mostly I think it made me mad was because it was about poison ivy (this person said that poison ivy travels under your skin), and I deserve to be an expert in poison ivy after my experiences.

Ilana


Dear Ilana, 

Thank you for your question! Ilana included a picture of herself with poison ivy with her request, and let me tell you, it wasn't pretty. She's had it many times, poor girl. 

I've been in your situation before: my Romanian racquetball partner in Waco wouldn't let me drink water during our games, because she said that it would prevent weight loss. I can't tell you how many of my European friends have told me that air conditioning is unhealthy. Some of them also told Stearns that she couldn't sit on concrete because it would harm her reproductive capacities. Arguing with someone who holds a belief that strongly is almost always ineffective. You could google it to settle the debate if you had a smart phone, but, while google is sometimes useful for solving debates, that would just look condescending with someone who isn't a close friend. Plus, what is the fun of life without disagreeing about facts? Another solution would be to ask them to put money on it and then win the bet and take their money. But, probably the nicest thing you can do, and what I would recommend, is to smile and nod and sneakily revel in your own superior knowledge.

 It's also important to remember that being adamant about the wrong facts can happen to the best of us--yes Ilana, even me: I was talking to some friends a couple of weeks ago when I insisted that Pitbull (who I'd only lately even heard of) was Polish. Polish! One of my friends replied, "Wow--that is odd, I always thought he was Cuban!" But I insisted that I knew that he is Polish. Well, in fact he is Cuban, which does make a ton more sense.

Your Aspiring Advice Columnist 

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Twitter

Weird! Elizabeth Bishop just made an appearance in Breaking Bad: The maiden name of Jane's mother is Bishop, and Elizabeth Bishop's picture is on the wall of Jane's bedroom.

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Quote


"But since in any matter on which the divine judgement of Aristotle opens its mouth it seems best to me to set aside that of every one else, as I wish to say what these virtues are, I will pass rapidly on discoursing of them in accordance with his judgement."

--Dante, The Convivio

Advice Column

Dear Readers,

I love giving advice. I'm fairly certain that my advice is medium to good advice, nothing spectacular, but I think that its mediocrity is balanced out by the fact that I'm very enthusiastic about giving it, and give it out as much as possible. So there's really a lot of it, and when is quantity not a substitute for quality? Really, I'm going to have to take that to heart regarding my dissertation.

I realized this the other day when I was giving Stearns advice. Hopkins was also advising her. Hopkins' advice was almost certainly more insightful and nuanced, but I highly doubt that she enjoyed giving it as much as I did (maybe she did: she's a first born like I am, so who knows?). 

Anyway, I think that I would like to be an advice columnist. So you should please send along any questions that you have on any topic, and I will make up the right answer for you. These questions can be real or hypothetical. It's probably not a bad idea for them to be hypothetical, as we really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. You just have to be careful of the internet--people can really find most anything out on there, if they try hard enough. You don't want your friends to find out that you're asking about them. That's one of the things that I can give advice about: google stalking. I'm really pretty good about it, I'd say. I've discovered some things that I'm embarrassed to know.

Sincerely,

Aspiring Advice Columnist

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Saturday


On Saturday I went with Mr. and Mrs. Sayers to Haddonfield, NJ to see the tulips. It turns out that 5000 tulips is not all that many, but we enjoyed a stroll around the downtown, which is very cute (I guess it specializes in bridal boutiques, which is a little odd). I also had gelati for the first time: Wikipedia says it's "a layered parfait of water ice and frozen custard, popular in the Philadelphia metropolitan region." Delicious.

In the evening, I met up with Sequins and Cardigan and others and we went to Khyber Pass Pub and Eulogy Belgian Tavern (Isn't Eulogy the weirdest name for a bar? I think their motto is something like "Live your life as if it's your eulogy.") I discovered that Sequins also loves wheat beer and witbier and hefeweizen, so we both tasted as many as possible, which was delightful. It was nice to have an option other than Blue Moon (not saying there's anything wrong with Blue Moon).

Monday, April 16, 2012

Today

Today (high of 88 in Philadelphia, PA) I am excessively worried about global warming. Today I am for a government mandate that all city roofs and roads by painted white. Although I was thinking about that article, and wouldn't white roofs be better for the summer, but worse for the winter? Which is to say, wouldn't darker roofs, which soak up the heat, reduce winter heating costs? Are we going to have to paint the roofs white in the summer and dark in the winter? If so, I'm opening up a paint store!

Easter Brooches


At Easter, Mama Leopard brought me a couple of brooches that have been in the family for a long time. I especially like this one, which was missing one little pearl, so she glued a new one in.

Sunday, April 15, 2012

A Random Assortment


(Anyone know what kind of flowers these are? I've never seen them before. I need a smart phone (a of all) and then a smart phone app that looks at the flowers and tells me what they are (b of all), like that music app does.)

~ "The Rare," a portrait series of rare disabilities in China, in the hopes of alleviating discrimination against people with disabilities, and in hopes of raising awareness of the need of providing people with disabilities care, including medical care.

This reminds me of the invaluable work done by Kelle Hampton at Enjoying the Small Things, her blog of photographs and reflections on loving and mothering her two daughters, one of which has Down Syndrome. Kelle's goal in life is to celebrate and love her daughters, and to encourage a world in which both of her daughters can be loved and appreciated. I can't think of a better response to disability myself. I think that Kelle's work of simply photographing and reflecting on life with her daughters is incredibly important given that in the United States around 90 percent of children with Down Syndrome are aborted. Because children with Down Syndrome are becoming rare, many doctors who are advising parents after the results of genetic testing have little or no experience with Down Syndrome. Kelle's celebration of the life of her daughter and of other children with Down Syndrome and her tracking the milestones that her daughter reaches, whether it be smiling or walking, reminds us of the humanity of those with Down Syndrome, a humanity that we attempt to deny through abortion.

~ "Connie Bronson," an early short story by Marilynne Robinson that foreshadows Housekeeping (mentioned in this Paris Review interview--ht/ Edge).

~ Hopkins: "And now food bloggers are talking about iceberg. You are a trendsetter." Read it for yourself. (Although hot sauce on salad?!)

~ Academic Coach Taylor has some advice for you. A perfect mix of Friday Night Lights and academia and feminism (okay, not exactly my kind of feminism, but still funny). 

~ On the philosophical novel. I don't think that this piece is that good, but it's a fascinating topic, and she hits on some interesting things along the way.

Friday, April 13, 2012

Flowering Trees


I love these purple trees (redbuds?)--they always look to me like a purple mist rather than something substantial. 


My neighborhood is a gorgeous blooming garden at the moment--it is full of color, including the bright new greens of spring.


I love these snow puff balls of flowers. There's a pink tree of these outside the living room window at Little Gidding. 


This all makes me want my own yard so that I can plant in it: a pink dogwood tree, some lilac bushes, and a redbud.


A First Time for Everything

Today I taught class while wearing sunglasses.

Also: It was so pretty outside that I missed my turn and got lost on the way home.

Also: I just realized that I wore one white earring and one purple earring today.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Downton Abbey





So I've bought into the whole Downton Abbey fad uber-late (till a little bit ago, I thought it was Downtown Abbey). Mostly, sure, the plot devises are so ridiculous it's like a soap opera: the first man Mary ever sleeps with dies in her bed; Bates' wife fakes her own suicide and frames him in order to prevent his happiness; O'Brien leaves a little soap on the floor and Cora slips and miscarries the longed-for heir; another cousin presumed dead on the Titanic may or may not reappear with his face badly burned so it's next to impossible to tell whether he is who he says he is or not. And the list goes on.


Hands down, my favorite part of the show is the the Dowager Countess. Honestly, she makes the show worth watching. She is a character straight out of Oscar Wilde. Her humor only works in an aristocratic society: she is the upholder of strict societal rules, but she also points to how arbitrary those societal rules are. And the fact is, silly rules are present in every society--by bringing the reader's attention to and exaggerating the silliness of hers, there's an implicit critique of ours. Also, a really old woman delightfully gets away with saying absurd things--it's easier to get away with absurd comments if you look a little clueless when you're saying them, and she always does. And, it must be remembered: she is hard-core aristocracy, but she also knows that tradition needs to be flexible in order to maintain it: she's the one who is best able to deal with Sybil marrying the chauffeur. She's one clever lady.

Some of my favorite Dowager Countess zingers:

On swivel chairs, which she objects to because they're modern:
Matthew: "Not very modern.They [swivel chairs] were invented by Thomas Jefferson."
Dowager Countess: "Why does every day involve a fight with an American?"

DC, on a Turkish man dying at Downton Abbey: "No Englishman would dream of dying in someone else's house, especially someone they didn't even know!"

DC: "The truth is neither here nor there, it's the look of the thing that matters."

DC: "You'll just have to take her abroad. In these moments, you can normally find an Italian who isn't too picky."

Mary: "You cannot be so contrary."
DC: "I'm a woman, Mary; I can be as contrary as I choose."

DC: "I couldn't have electricity in the house. I wouldn't sleep a wink--all those vapors seeping about."

On the telephone: "Is this a modern means of communication or an instrument of torture?"

DC: "What is a weekend?"

DC: "I never knew such reformings."
Cousin Isabel: "I take that as a compliment."
DC: "I must have said it wrong."

Cora: "She's such a martyr."
DC: "Then we must tempt her with a more enticing scaffold."

DC: "Don't be defeatest, dear. It's very middle class."

DC: "I hope I'm interrupting something."

DC: "This sort of thing is all very well in novels, but in reality, it can prove very uncomfortable."

Monday, April 9, 2012

The Zoo



Papa Leopard and I took a walk at the National Zoo today. We were greeted, upon our arrival, by a tiger carrying a (dead) white rabbit. I suppose that's how they celebrate Easter?


All the kids are clearly the best part of the zoo--one little girl, when her parents told her they had to leave, but would come back, said to the gorillas, "We have to go now, but we'll be back."


Hands down, the monkeys are always my favorite. They just look so funny--their uber long arms, their round barrel bellies, their awkwardness walking on the ground. This orangutan was really playful and kept covering herself up with the sheet and rolling around under it with one of the other orangutans.  


Sunday, April 8, 2012

The Arboretum





(And the fish market)


Happy Easter!

A highlight of my Easter was Stearns and Mama Leopard stumbling upon some plastic Easter eggs filled with candy at the Arboretum. They were excited about their finds until they realized that we had just walked in on the edge of an in-process Easter egg hunt and stolen the little kids' eggs.

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Ron Swanson on Wendell Berry


"My favorite writer is Wendell Berry, from Kentucky. He’s a farmer, an agrarian, an essayist, a poet, a novelist. His overarching philosophy is that we’ve lost touch with the land we’ve grown up on, and if we could all take two steps back, if everybody planted a garden or if somebody in the neighborhood made shoes, we’d probably be a much stronger society with less need for the distractions of video games and all that. I often think of the shockingly accurate fat, baby-like adults in the movie Wall-E. If I had a soapbox—which I’d build myself—I’d use it to encourage people to make things with their hands or to get outside and walk in a park, to experience the world in ways that don’t involve screens."

--Nick Offerman

Quote

Me: "Look at my new brooch!"
Francisco: "Nice! That looks like my grandmother's!"

(I think he meant that to be complimentary.)